The AI relationship coach app that drafts the awkward "we should catch up".
heylife is an AI for staying in touch that ships the message instead of just reminding you to send it. Schedules birthday texts, surfaces friends gone quiet, drafts the catch-up note in your voice, books a recurring date night, and remembers the names you keep forgetting before you walk into the room.
01 / The job to be doneYou love these people. You haven't texted them in nine months.
You think about that friend at 11 PM, decide you'll text them tomorrow, and then it is March again. Your partner's birthday creeps up while you are deep in launch week. Your old mentor, the one who actually changed your career, has not heard from you since the wedding. You are not a bad friend; you are a person with a calendar, a job, and a memory that does not scale. A reminder app does not fix this, because the hard part is not remembering, it is writing the message that doesn't sound generic at 11:47 PM. heylife handles that part.
02 / What the relationships agent does for youConcrete, in your voice.
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Schedules birthday texts.
Drafts a message that sounds like you, not a card aisle, and queues it for the morning of, with one tap to send.
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Drafts the "we should catch up" message.
Names a real time, references the last thing you talked about, and gets the awkward part out of the way before you stall again.
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Surfaces friends you have not seen in 60 days.
Quiet weekly nudge: three names, last context, suggested next move. Not a leaderboard. A reminder that the people you love drift if no one steers.
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Books a recurring date night.
Designed to find a real slot in your calendar and your partner's, hold it as a recurring block, and hand you two restaurant options the week of.
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Logs a relationship CRM you can actually review.
Not creepy notes on people. A private list of who matters, last contact, what they said, what you promised, so you can keep your word.
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Reminds you of names and details before you see someone.
Twenty minutes before drinks, the brief lands: their kid's name, the project they were sweating last time, the thing they asked you about that you forgot to follow up on.
03 / The agent in your councilMeet the Catchup scout.
YOUR RELATIONSHIPS AGENT
Catchup scout
The Catchup scout is the sub-agent assigned to the Relationships bucket. It owns the names you forget, the messages you mean to send, the date nights you keep meaning to book, and the friend who has gone quiet. It coordinates with your other agents so launch week at work does not silently kill three friendships, and a hard week health-wise does not orphan your partner. Read more on the Catchup scout page.
04 / Pick your role modelsYour council, not ours.
Most relationship apps hand you stock advice that sounds like a magazine. heylife flips that. Your council for Relationships might be the friend who is genuinely good at being a friend, a writer like Esther Perel on partnership, a grandparent whose letters you saved, and the person in your life whose marriage you actually admire. We frame the catch-up message, the date-night cadence, and the hard conversation the way they would. You pick them, you can swap them, and we cite real source material rather than putting words in anyone's mouth.
05 / Integrations that matter for relationshipsWhere these conversations actually happen.
- Gmail. Drafts the catch-up email, the wedding congrats, the hard apology you have been putting off.
- Google Calendar. Books the recurring date night, the dinner with friends, the call with your old mentor.
- Notion. Holds your private people log: who matters, last context, what you promised.
- Apple Health. Reads your sleep and stress so a heavy week does not get a "you should call your sister now" nudge.
heylife is in private beta; integrations roll out as we open access.
06 / FAQThree quick questions.
How is this different from a habit tracker or to-do app?
A habit tracker reminds you to "text mom" once a week and gets ignored. heylife is built to draft the actual message, in your voice, with the real context from last time, and queue it for a moment when you are not underwater. The point is not to track that you should reach out, it is to make reaching out the easy thing.
What if I do not want it to act, only suggest?
You stay in charge. heylife runs in autopilot or approval mode, per integration. You can tell the Catchup scout to draft the messages but never send anything until you tap yes. Every action is in a full audit trail; nothing about your private people is shared, sold, or used to train public models.
When does it launch?
heylife is in private beta now. Invites go out weekly to people on the waitlist, in small batches, so we can pay attention to every early user. Drop your email and we will let you know when yours is ready.
Stop being the friend who means well.
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