The AI thinking partner for the texts you almost did not send.
heylife brings a panel of three to five honest voices to the relationship moments that quietly shape a decade, not a single coach voice. Two missed calls from Mom and no voicemail. Seventy-one days since you saw your best friend. The apology you have been drafting since October. The wedding RSVP you keep dodging. heylife shows up with the voices that know who you are.
01 / The job to be doneYou love these people. You need the right voice, when it matters.
You think about that friend at 11pm, decide you will text them tomorrow, and it is March again. Your partner is short with you and you do not know if it is the week or the year. The apology you owe is overdue, and writing it cold feels worse than the original sin. A reminder app does not fix this, because the hard part is not remembering, it is the voices in the room when you finally sit down to do it: the Honest friend that says just call, the Boundary that says fifteen minutes is enough, the Loyal voice that reminds you who notices every time. heylife brings that room.
02 / What the relationships agent does for youFive relationship moments. Variable voices. Your call.
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Friday 4:47pm, two missed calls from Mom, no voicemail.
Five voices for the guilty avoider: Honest friend, Boundary, Therapist friend, Realist, Loyal. Three voices for the over-explainer: Honest mirror, Connector, Dry friend. The room reads the shape of the problem, not just the topic.
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Seventy-one days since you saw your best friend. He is in town.
Connector, Honest friend, Realist. They argue about whether to text "beer Saturday" without drafting, pick a 90-min coffee instead of a dinner you will bail on, or admit you are in a season and call later.
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Text from your ex: "thinking of you."
Romantic, Skeptic, Honest mirror, Loyal-to-current-life. The room argues. Some say reply with one line. Some say do not. The voices reflect who you are right now, not who you were two years ago.
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Wedding RSVP you have been dodging for three weeks.
Honest friend, Realist, Loyal, Boundary-setter. They argue about whether to go alone, send a real maybe with the reason, or just commit and book the flight while the prices are still survivable.
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Overdue apology, three weeks late.
Honest mirror, Therapist friend, Dry friend, Loyal. Four voices for the over-explainer who is about to write a paragraph and three voices for the avoider who is about to write nothing at all. The room knows which one you are.
03 / The agent in your councilMeet the Catchup scout lens.
YOUR RELATIONSHIPS ADVISOR LENS
Catchup scout
The Catchup scout is the advisor lens assigned to the Relationships bucket. It carries the voices that argue about loyalty, honesty, restraint, and warmth at the moments that decide who stays close. It coordinates with your other lenses so a launch week at work does not silently orphan three friendships, and a hard week health-wise does not become a hard week for the people who love you. Read more on the Catchup scout page.
04 / Pick your role modelsYour council, not ours.
Most relationship apps hand you stock advice that sounds like a magazine. heylife flips that. Your council for Relationships might be the friend who is genuinely good at being a friend, a writer like Esther Perel on partnership, a grandparent whose letters you saved, and the person in your life whose marriage you actually admire. We channel their lens into the voices that show up at each relationship moment. You pick them, you can swap them, and we cite real source material rather than putting words in anyone's mouth.
05 / Integrations that matter for relationshipsWhat heylife reads so the voices are grounded.
- Gmail. Read-only signal on the email you started to your old mentor and never sent, the wedding invite still in your inbox.
- Google Calendar. Read-only awareness of when you last had dinner with your best friend, when the wedding is, what your week looks like.
- Notion. Read-only access to your private people log, so the panel remembers who you care about and what you promised.
- Apple Health. Read-only sleep and stress signal so the room knows whether tonight is a "call mom" night or a "go to bed" night.
heylife is in private beta; integrations roll out as we open access.
06 / FAQThree quick questions.
How is this different from a relationship app or coach app?
A relationship coach app gives you one voice, one philosophy, one frame. heylife brings a panel of three to five honest voices to the moment of decision, tuned to who you are. The avoider gets a different room than the over-explainer. The voices disagree on purpose, so you see the trade-off before you tap send or close the app and forget again.
Does heylife send messages on my behalf?
No. heylife is a thinking partner. It surfaces the voices and the takes you need, with context from your real life. You write the text, you make the call, you book the dinner. Sending and booking are not on the roadmap for relationships, because the friction in writing the message yourself is the point.
When does it launch?
heylife is in private beta now. Invites go out weekly to people on the waitlist, in small batches, so we can pay attention to every early user. Drop your email and we will let you know when yours is ready.
A room of voices for the texts that decide a friendship.
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