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Catchup scout.
The agent that keeps your people on the radar so nobody slips through the cracks of a busy life.
Catchup scout is the AI for staying in touch with friends inside heylife.ai. It is built to keep a quiet ledger of who you actually talk to, surface the friend you have not pinged in 90 days, draft the message in your voice, and book the dinner before "we should hang out" turns into another year. It is an AI relationship reminder app that does the awkward part for you, with consent.
Join the private beta01 / WHAT IT DOESThe friend who reminds you to be a friend.
Most relationship trackers turn your friends into a CRM. Catchup scout is built to be more like a thoughtful person who sits next to you on the couch and says, "hey, when did you last talk to Marcus?" Here is the shape of the work it is designed to do.
It will keep a quiet ledger of who you actually talk to, with a cadence per person that you set (close friends weekly, old colleagues quarterly, family in their own rhythm). No public scoreboard. Just for you.
Each Sunday, it will surface the 1 to 3 people you have not pinged in too long, ranked by who actually matters to you, not by who replied to your last LinkedIn post.
It will draft the "thinking of you" message in your voice, anchored to a real thread (their kid's birthday, the trip they took, the thing you both bonded over last time), so it does not sound like a bot reaching out.
Once they reply, it will propose 3 dinner slots, scan both calendars (if they have shared availability), and put it on the books. The "we should hang out" never goes nowhere.
Before you see them, it will remind you of their kids' names, the last big thing they were stressed about, and the question you forgot to ask. The small details that say "I see you."
Once a month, it will help you check the "circle of five," the closest people whose orbit you want to protect this season. Drift gets named, on purpose, before it becomes a year.
02 / WHAT IT REMEMBERSThe little book of your people.
Catchup scout draws on the layer every heylife agent shares: who you have told the product about, what you said matters about them, and how often you actually want to be in touch. It reads who you talk to (Contacts, calendar invites, optional iMessage cadence, never the content of your messages), and it remembers the last time you saw someone, what came up, and what you said you would follow up on. Every nudge shows the memory it pulled from, and you can correct it; if a contact is not actually close, you say so once and the agent updates.
03 / INSPIRED BY YOUR COUNCILThe friend who is good at this.
heylife does not ship stock advisor personas. You build the council. For Catchup scout, you might seat the people who have made friendship a discipline, not an accident.
- The friend in your life who is just good at this. The one who remembers your sister's name and your old job. Upload the kind of message they would send and Catchup scout will write closer to that warmth.
- Esther Perel, or whichever relationships voice you actually read. Real corpus, real citations, used to advise this season's call about who to invest in. Not a roleplay; a teacher you have already learned from.
- A grandparent or mentor who showed up with letters. The model of someone who made being in touch a habit, not a vibe. Their style becomes a template you can lean on when you do not know what to say.
04 / INTEGRATIONSWhere it plugs into your life.
- CONTACTSReads who is actually in your address book; never uploads it whole, just the people you tag.
- IMESSAGE / SMSSchedules sends, drafts replies. Cadence-only, never reads message content unless you opt in.
- CALENDARBooks the dinner, the call, the coffee. Knows when you are out of town and adjusts.
05 / WHAT YOU STAY IN CONTROL OFIt never sends without you.
Catchup scout is built to never speak in your voice without your nod. Every message lands as a draft for you to send, edit, or skip. You decide which contacts the agent watches, and which it never touches. The ledger is private to you, never shared, never sold, never used to score anyone. There is a full audit log of every nudge and every send. You can revoke any integration in one click and walk away with your data.
Mini FAQ.
Does Catchup scout act without asking?
No. Drafts get drafted, nudges get surfaced, but no message leaves your phone or inbox without you tapping send. The whole point is to make you a better friend, not to outsource your friendships.
Can I tune the tone?
Yes, per circle. Close friends get the warmer, sillier voice you actually use. Old colleagues get crisper notes. You set it once, you can change it any week, and the agent learns from your edits.
What does it draw from?
Contacts, calendar invites, the cadence you set per person, the notes you keep about people, and the council you have seated for tone. Message content stays on your device unless you explicitly turn it on for a contact you trust the agent with.
Stop being the friend who keeps meaning to.
heylife is in private beta. Weekly invites. Bring the people you love, we will help you actually show up for them.
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